Hey everyone! Today, I want to talk about something a bit bittersweet but also heartwarming: "Love, but not expressed." Have you ever felt this way? Sometimes we keep our feelings hidden, not daring to say or do anything to make them obvious. I’ve been there myself! One time, I took my girlfriend to see a cute little piglet by the hippo pond, but this wasn’t just any outing. We went to see a famous pygmy hippo calf named “Moodeng” at Kao Kiew Open Zoo in Thailand. This little hippo has become a worldwide sensation, captivating people from all corners of the globe with its irresistible charm. But there I was, acting so calm and composed, as if this adorable sight meant nothing, even though inside, my heart was soaring with excitement.
Why Don’t We Show Our Love?
Why do we often hesitate to express our feelings? It’s not just a thing among Thai or Asian youth; people all over the world do this. In English, there’s the phrase “playing hard to get,” and in Japanese, they have “ツンデレ” (tsundere), referring to someone who hides their true affection behind a cold exterior. Many cultures have words or phrases that describe this kind of behavior.
The Reasons Behind It
So, what are the reasons for not expressing love openly? Psychological theories, like Professor Edward Deci’s Self-Determination Theory, suggest that people value autonomy and acceptance. Showing affection might make someone feel vulnerable or anxious about not getting the reaction they hope for. Researchers also point out that some people fear rejection so much that they’d rather hold back than risk disappointment.
The Stress of Holding Back
This emotional withholding creates tension on both sides. The one who holds back might feel pressure, while the person waiting for some sign of love grows anxious and unsure. It’s like a communication gap that robs both people of genuine happiness in the relationship. But showing affection, even in small ways, can make a big difference.
Human Touch Encourages Healthy Expressions of Love
At Human Touch, we believe in expressing love, even if just a little. Love is more fulfilling when it’s shared. We’re not saying you need to be overly dramatic; sometimes a simple gift can speak volumes. Our Boy Meets Girl collection offers cute, meaningful items that capture love stories in various moments. Whether it’s a pair of couple’s pillowcases or matching coffee cups, there’s sure to be something that perfectly represents your story. A thoughtful gift like this can make your loved one’s heart swell with joy, even if you’re not the type to say much.
Small Steps Toward Expressing Love
If you’re hesitant, start small. Buy a meaningful gift, write a heartfelt note, or surprise your partner with something that shows your feelings. It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture. A simple, meaningful gift can convey your love beautifully, and your special someone will feel deeply cherished just from that thoughtful act.
Final Thoughts
Love doesn’t come around often, and the people who matter to us won’t be there forever. Even a little expression of love can bring so much happiness to both you and your partner. Don’t hold back; try showing your feelings. It might strengthen your relationship in ways you never imagined.
Love you, and this time, I’m not holding it in!
